In a round about way she said she was going through a MLC. She thought that I would never change. That is why it is so vital for my actions to remain consistant. No snooping. No escalations or reactive behavior etc. GAL is big to her. She likes when I go out with friends.
I agree with you. Having a talk with my W is a high priority. Actually when I left EE it was my # goal/priority to accomplish. There are steps prior to asking her to sit down and talk.
One thing you establish at EE is a priority you want to change and then develop goals and a support system to do so. I had the great pleasure to spend the weekend with 25 and other very supportive people. It really has been the best thing I've done in a long time.
