"The hardest part of all of this is having to see w and talk to W."
This has been your problem from the beginning. You are going to have to learn some serious coping solutions.
"I have realized that all the men in her family are treated as second class by the women. I'm not interested in being treated that way."
Okay you can stop all that drama queen stuff right there. She had good reason go act the way she did ESPECIALLY when you started acting psycho on her. She treated you well in the beginning and she detailed it VERY clearly. You just ignored it. Then when she stopped doing what you wanted or expected, you went nuts and did things that would scare anyone.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.