just as an FYI, the "Golden Uterus" referred to is NOT applicable here.
That is a syndrome in which the mother feels that ONLY SHE can make choices re the child and it's solely based on her giving birth to it, and she does NOT invite involvement by others at all, in fact she resents it. There's more to it but in a nutshell, that's it.
Bruce's wife experienced the opposite. She WANTED his involvement, but he did not give it. She discussed things with him in France but he wasn't able to hear the importance of her words, or they did not matter enough. He only recently learned of the two medical conditions his son has. She's been dealing with it 24/7 for 2 years.
HE is the one who wanted the baby but found the infant uninteresting (at best) and after all, HE was tired after "working like a madman".
No, he was Not too tired not to go out twice at night during the week for his recreational interests, which she never got to do, but hey, she got 'time off" just for having a baby! "All day" she got to spend with an infant. How easy can life get????
Anyhow, okay I don't want to negatively spiral out now. I just wanted to point out how inapplicable the GU issue is in this case. And to give insight into what it's about.
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