You know, when/if you ask yourself why a huge group of random people can't see your side of things, it might be time to look inwards instead of outwards. In this case I'd say it's long overdue.
Seriously, you sound worse of than at the beginning of your sitch. I assume the recent events have triggered a negative respons in you, but with lawyers/courts and your daily life at stake, this is the time to keep your cool man.
Together for 8,5 years. S2 Interest in OM. She left 29.09.12 b/c we couldn't work things out. No signs of OM, not digging. Living in seperate homes, sharing custody.
