That is really interesting. My H doesn't remember things from two months ago. I still wonder if he is really forgetting them or it's just conveniently forgetting them. We had conversations after BD but before OWBD where he told me he would never love me again "that way," and compared it to his past GF and how he still had love for them. Then the next day was really upset when I confronted him about it and said he didn't remember saying that and apologized.

I'm glad to hear that the meal switch up is going smoothly. I think making it a "team" effort is a really good idea. I thought I better switch my name in case H ever stumbled on here. Previous nick would be a dead give away.


M38,H39
M:16Y
BD:8/12
OWDB:11/12
S:11/12-5/13
"Temp" home:6/13
OW dropped:9/13
"I love you":12/13
H ring on:2/14
Depression back:5/15
"I'm done:" 7/15
H moved out: 3/16
H moved back: 12/16
Working on us: 3/17