Thank you Tullula - it was indeed the most painful and hurtful thing anybody has ever said to me. I know they say believe 50% of what she does and nothing of what she says - but think this is even stretching this a little too far.
W 39 Me 33 M 9yrs 8 year old Son ILYBINILWY - Dec 12 W moved out - Jan 2013 OM - Jan 2013 I file for D - May 2013