Unfortunately, she is moving out all of her stuff today. She has clearly detached from me. I think the last few days just cemented her decision.
Very sorry to hear this. It sounds like she's making a rash decision and not thinking things through at all. That's very unfortunate. I suspect she will really regret this later.
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So, the 6 month DB process will be a bit late
You can still benefit from DB'ing. It teaches you how to detach, build your own life and rebuild your self-esteem. You're still going to need all of that.
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I will continue my 180's. I will GAL. I will take care of my children. But, I feel hopeless. My friends and family are there for me, but I have to force myself to keep moving just to keep from thinking about her.
Of course you feel hopeless, your life is being turned upside down!!! It's perfectly normal to feel that way. You're going to cycle through all kinds of emotions. Don't fight the emotions, just do what you can to keep yourself busy to take your mind off of things as much as possible. Healing takes time, give yourself that time.
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How does a mother move to another city and leave her children with a step dad?
She may be in MLC. WAS's sometimes do confusing, unexplainable things, but MLCers do absolutely crazy things. You'll often hear MLC spouses say it's like an alien has abducted their spouse's body and moved in to make it their home, the MLCer will say and do things that are completely incompatible with the person they were only days before.
