Unfortunately my Dad passed away in the early hours of this morning. The last thing he said to me was how important family is and I should never give up on mine.
In about 2 hours time my wife I are going to tell our son. I'm so emotional I really think DBing is going to go out of the window. The only person I want by my side to help me through this is my Wife but she told me yesterday before he died "I know I've made the right decision because your dad is dying and it's not made me want to come back and it's not made me care about you" such hurtful comments.
I am so very sorry, Inact. You will be in my prayers.
That had to be very hurtful thing to hear. I hope that MWD's advise to believe nothing that you hear, applies here. Just take care of yourself. Give yourself time to grieve and if at all possible, just focus on the family and parts of your life that will give you comfort. It seems that your wife will be unable to give you that.
M: 9 yrs T: 13 yrs H:34 Me:35, S4, D2, S 7 months Dday 11/12-PA & multiple PAs Dbing 12/12 S 1/13 7/13 H moved back in basement. 8/13 #3 born 10/13 still cheating 10/13 He moves across country, I file for D
