I have been dark for most of our separation, just responding to his correspondence mostly. I am GAL all the time: travel, working out 4-6x/wk, going to concerts 2-3x/month, spending time with friends/family, and my outings are often posted by my friends on Facebook so he knows I am still living my life. He comments that he does follow my life on FB and is happy I am having fun. Believe me, my life is a complete 180 from what he left 7 months ago.

He wants me to have my lawyer retract a motion for discovery to make him produce his financial info for the past 3 years. H said this isn't necessary and is just a lot of work for nothing because I already know what he owns. Also, he says it will just run up our lawyer fees which he thinks is crazy. He wants this to be so easy and effortless for himself and thinks I should want that too. I haven't responded to this yet, but I am going to hold tight and let my lawyer do his job. I don't think this is unreasonable. Thanks for your input.


M: 38yo, H: 44yo
Together:10yrs
Married: 6yrs
No kids
BD 8/15/12
H walked-out 8/18/12