You know, when I first got the bomb all I heard was how long the odds were that we could make it back and reconcile, how small the chances were. And then when H moved out in December all I heard was how this or that person separated and/or divorced and got back together. The future is unwritten. Be open to what is, without having expectations. The things you think are points of no return later sometimes just turn out to have been points along the way.
But acknowledging where you are and making changes now seems like a necessary and good thing.
Adinva 51, S20, S18 M24 total 6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out 9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50 5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend __ Happiness is a warm puppy.
