It's good to be here

[Mileus]

Here is a link to the post I put in infidelity.

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2322983#Post2322983


Unfortunately, she is moving out all of her stuff today. She has clearly detached from me. I think the last few days just cemented her decision.

She is planning on marrying him. Probably within a month or two. I don't even want to think about how that will affect the kids. They barely want to speak to her now. And I've been reminding them she's their mother and loves them.

So, the 6 month DB process will be a bit late. That's the problem with not being married, it's too easy to leave. I am crushed and miserable. I don't even think she wants to marry him, but she needs insurance because she lost her job.

I will continue my 180's. I will GAL. I will take care of my children. But, I feel hopeless. My friends and family are there for me, but I have to force myself to keep moving just to keep from thinking about her.

How does a mother move to another city and leave her children with a step dad? Even though I've raised them for 14 years, they have abandonment issues from their dad leaving. The children are older, but angry and devastated.

For those who helped me through this, I thank you. I feel better typing and knowing people are listening. I wish I had better news. Good luck to everyone. I can't believe this happened so fast.