She always had access to our joint account and largely used that privilege while in different countries. I wouldn't let my wife without money. After her bomb, not only I gave her substantial amount of money upon my arrival (which she said she would not check in, but eventually did...), but I also said I would give her whatever she wanted. I even proposed to buy her a crossover car!
On her dropbomb, that you all have read, she says she won't seek part of our assets or maintenance support. She is seeking both now.
In fact in her first petition, it was all about S. She was asking 100% of time with S, and none for me. We replied to that petition, everybody remembers. When she understood that some time would be granted to me, and eventually 50-50%, she amended her petition, in fact three days before the hearing, and added the spousal support thing, as a "retaliation".
She didn't do it because she needs money, she stays at her parents! She doesn't pay rent or childcare.
So, I'm not the stingy one here. She is intent in hitting me in the nose, until I bleed and ask her to make an arrangement Son versus money. (like she tried with her crappy deal dropping the divorce against my time with S).
