Confused by WAS

[Grizz]

I actually don't think my girls are aware of anything. My W and I are fortunately in agreement to try to keep it from the kids as long as possible. Thankfully we have been able to keep our emotions in check when around the kids. I do alot with my girls (always have) and that has not changed. W doesn't do nearly as much with us however but she always has a good excuse for the girls as to why she can't go places with us.
I will say that it will absolutely tear me apart when we have to tell the girls. I am not sure how I will hold it together. My oldest daughter has such a big heart and is so sensitive. I think she will be devastated. Hopefully it will never come to that but I am preparing myself for the worst. Hopefully you guys can keep it from the kids as long as possible. This has to be one of the hardest parts of D.