The end of a marriage

[AJM]

I would suggest his home. There is no need to cause a scene.

As for the rest, what did you tell him? Did you tell him you need to be able to trust him? Did you make that list?

I envy you being able to talk to your H. That's a very helpful thing even if you need him to earn your trust.

Hang in there. And think about what it is that's important to you. It'll be useful later either with H or with somebody else. With H if you have to continue to deal with him no matter what happens to the relationship. And you will likely have to deal with him as the years go on.

Peace,
AJ