For the record your sitch struck me in that me and my W had a similar dynamic. W was the organised one, very particular in what she liked, critical of others etc etc and I was the more laid back one (too laid back). So we are opposites in the same sitch! So when you say your H tuned in I bet he did as I did for all these years and tuned out as 25yrs says! He let you get on with it for an easy life? ....but W came to resent this in the end as she shouldered too much of the burden at home.
wow so she couldn’t take it anymore and wanted D.. That really proves neither way wins. If we don’t have a balanced dynamic in our m, it doesn’t last. My H actually pointed out about that when we sat down after BD 4 months ago. I could not agree with him more. It was always my way.
Thank you for your comment. Don’t worry about not being much of a help. Any comment is a help
M37 H36 M8 T12 inc 3yr L-dist 7/12:H broke down 10/12:H dad D frm W4. BD soon after 1/13:H wants to leave 2/13:H gpa passed. Feels closer but H still leaving 3/13: S begins
