Gonna be different now, (butterfly in hurricane).

[MrBond]

Holly, have you read the whole thread? It doesn't sound like you've understood what's been going on.

"A woman who would keep a child from the father is a bad mother."

Not necessarily.

"She has no right to use said child as a weapon; I don't care how "badly" she thinks she was treated."

She wasn't using their son as a weapon. Go back and re-read the threads from the beginning.

"And to use her dad as a buffer? Yikes."

There was a good reason.

"You guys will need to co-parent at some point and I don't see her being very cooperative."

Again, there was good reason.

"She needs to grow up."

Go back and read the posts.