Hi, I will try to explain how I view things, even if only for journalling.
It is since I have arrived in Canada in July 2012 that I am making all efforts to see my son, ask for more time, (and I admit trying to see my wife too). It has been denied, refused and opposed. That is why 7 months later, there is a judge that has to order W to let me see him more than 2 times two hours oer week ! She has no right to escape with the kid and tell me that I can't see him, or only on her terms. She can leave me, but she can't take S from me. Seems basic, doesn`t it ? Well apparently no, W wanted me to have 0 time with him. (!!!)
In fact, she should be paying a fine for each day that passed where she witheld S from me. If it was the contrary, denying a child to his mother, heck, I'd be in prison.
That's why I'm mad. The message I get is : if you want to see S, you'll have to pay. If you want to see him more, you have to pay more. W gets to have S 95% of the time, and gets plenty of money from ATM husband. And she kicks the husband in the balls, and throws him away like a disposable material. And oh, she suffered so much under my cruelty during her vulnerable time because I played table tennis in a club twice a week after work, that she deserves all my compassion and my understanding.
Come on already!
B.
A woman who would keep a child from the father is a bad mother. She has no right to use said child as a weapon; I don't care how "badly" she thinks she was treated. And to use her dad as a buffer? Yikes. You guys will need to co-parent at some point and I don't see her being very cooperative. She needs to grow up.
