Originally Posted By: shelly_shore
Do you see the problem with this picture?

All he cares about is how comfortable HE is.

If he gets uncomfortable, he cheats on you.

If you get uncomfortable, you just have to suck it up?

Come on...

Shelly, I agree in principle, but I can understand that sometimes, if someone is ashamed of their past behavior, they don't want to keep talking about it. I would be willing to give him some leeway on the "talking about the past" if he would be doing other things that allow me to feel more secure.


Me: 60 H: 63
married 40, together 42
3 grown kids