Today I began to feel something odd about my sitch. H and I still remain in the same house. I still cook and shop for the house. We both still work and pay our bills. We have begun to have better conversations.We still ML. For the most part, we still live our lives as if the elephant is not in the room especially with me not asking R questions,snooping or mentioning the OW or our sitch. The GAL process is working for me but I am starting to actually resent my H. I think about what he has done and I have this "how dare you" feeling to come over me. I feel as it he is somehow "getting away" with the A since neither of us mention it. HOW WILL I KNOW WHEN IT'S OVER IF I DON'T BRING IT UP? I want to ask so badly or take a sneak peek at our phone records. I actually looked at him today with disgust when he kissed me. What is leading to?It's a tormenting feeling. Any advice?
I'm in a similar situation with my wife. In early Jan 2013, she told me she didn't love me etc. But we still live together, ML, and so forth. I'm still snooping (yes, hard to stop) and we can have a great day, but she continues to talk about leaving the marriage with her girl friends. It is my opinion, my wife is confused, in a MLC (maybe fits your H too?). She has noticed my 180's and I think this is helping my sitch. But like you, I'm not sure what to do.
