"W gets to have S 95% of the time, and gets plenty of money from ATM husband."
Bruce from a mans perspective I get this^^^^^. Been there done that. If you let this consume you, your R with your S will suffer. Let it go and stop fighting her. You are responsible for financial maintenance, period. Don't use this to get back at her. It doesn't work and it will cause more damage. You are getting very sound advice from people who have been at this for a very long time.
Someone told me this at the very beginning to > "Drop the Gun"......
No one wins here. Everyone loses, remember that.
M 53 D 20 Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24 Together 26 yrs Married 16 W Filed for D 7/21/11 Served 9/6/11 D final 8/28/12
“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”
