I cant believe how many of us are in the same situation. My wife is the same way rushing to get her own house and seems very firm in her choice to leave despite all my recent changes.

This forum gives us hope so keep reading other peoples threads and you will understand what works and what dont. Im almost finished reading the DR,and it has giving me some encouragement. At least you are trying to do something so congrats to that!

Its a wild roller coaster ride!.


H 37
WAW 32
S 4 (Autistic)
S 2
Together 11 years
Married 6
Bombshell Dec 1 2012
House sold, flying solo June 1 2013.