Oh lord, everyone i gave a small update. I just discovered that my husbsnd has discontinued his medication due to side effects and refuses to go back to the clinic. He says he wants to try herbal remedies instead. I dont inow how reliable any meds/ herbs are but im expecting a relapse and preparing for ww3 in the house. He has already been verbally and emotionally abusive to me the past 5 months, when he sas something vad i either ignore it or tell him " thats a really mean thing to say." But i expect it to get worse. Wears my battle helmet, time to hunker down.