My W also says she is so, so happy. She goes to great lengths to tell me every time we talk and with her friends.
Sounds like she's trying to convince herself she's happy. It's been less than 2 months since she left, there is just no way she could have found true happiness so soon. Anyone that's not miserable about their sitch less than 2 months after S is lying to themselves, doesn't matter whether it's the WAS or LBS, both are affected deeply by a S.
Originally Posted By: Grizz
What I miss the most though is the everyday affection like hugs, a hand on a knee, a pat on the back for no reason. The little moments that shows someone cares. You really don't know what you've got until it's gone.
So true. If I was in the living room with my feet propped up on the footrest, whenever W would pass by she would reach down and pinch my toe and I would say "ouch!" Such a silly little thing, but of all things THAT was what I found myself missing after BD. It's the small gestures like those that say "I love you" and when they go away it creates a huge void.
