yes, it is hard to figure them out, especially when we had no idea. the biggest mistake i have made along the way is trying to figure my W out, instead of figuring myself out.
tell us more about yourself and your M. you will find great people on this board who can truly help.
I have come a long way in figuring out who I am and I like who I see in the mirror. My W continues to act in 180. My teenagers even see it.
We were high school sweet hearts who married at 21 and 20 and 30 years would have been this summer. I fear a OM in her life. Well don't fear it anymore.
