almost 3 months....seems like eternity

[swoop]

Just so you know you sound very angry.

I don't feel angry. I really don't. Trust me, this is not in response to her having a headache. I am not throwing a tantrum. It is not a sudden change of heart I had over the last 3 days. This is a decision I have had on my mind for a couple months now. I even mentioned it in my first thread. I gave myself a goal of March 1st, when we first separated.

everything you bring up is within your control to change and most of it isn't about her.

What can I do to control these things?