Wife said she was done!

[Maritimer]

Still trying to detach and finish reading the DR. She is seeking a pre approval for a mortgage. No offer on the house yet thankfully.

She don’t seem as cold but still no indication that she wants to work it out. My feelings are still like a roller coaster sometimes it doesn’t bother me to leave but other times it hurts to think about my family not being around all the time. Just enjoying each day i have with the boys while still in the home with them. Not sure why she would want to leave such a good father to the boys.

I feel that should tell her exactly what i think about the situation. I think it is selfish of her to only to look out for herself where breaking up the family and leaving will hurt me and the boys tremendously. Also family, friends and her co workers dont know why she is leaving and not even trying to work it out. She seems different to them as well. Choosing to become a single mother is baffling to me. There are so many questions i want to ask but i need to give her space. I keep reminding myself to be patience.