Andrew, first of all, congratulations on your progress.
Second, after my H's affair, I applied Starky's advice to the T, but my H said he felt that he had no freedom. He felt he had no privacy. He ended up moving out to do whatever he wanted. I think your W is at a different place, but this is really new, and you have to wait a while to see if this 100% commitment is real. So my advice is to wait before having this type of conversations. As hard as it is.
