Don't worry about this being a trigger for your h's mlc. It may not have been the "one". Your h was destined to have an mlc whether you were married to him or not. Stop worrying about his mlc and what may or may not have set things in motion. The focus now has to be on YOU and what YOU need to do in order to get through this.
You need to be up front and honest w/him and the sooner you advise him of what may be coming down the pike, the better. Whether he is living at home or on the street, he is still your husband and the father of your children. He needs to be aware of what he will need to do in the way of supporting you and the children during this time. Please do not put this off any longer than you have to.
There is no harm in reaching out to others for support as well, but your h should be the first one you approach. Don't put this off.
Your focus has to be on YOU now. Leave the mlc monster at the door for now.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
