Several opinions here...all care about you --all are valid -- mostly yours and your wife 's
Without discounting the others--I don't at all--they have GREAT points. Mine will get the yawn or eye-roll, so feel free to 'bring it'---
Kinda hard to "bring it" when you suddenly and completely arbitrarily MODERATE my posts. If "all (points) are valid," why not let them see the light of day -- immediately -- and let the original poster decide for themselves which is the best course of action?
I think 2TP is a big boy, and can handle it, don't you?