Just noticed AJ I didn't answer your question...my health problem is breast cancer...I have to go for ultra sounds, mri's, mammograms and biopsies starting next week.

I am also seriously thinking that maybe I shouldn't tell H at all and reach out for support from others...I am scared to tell him...especially if this was a trigger that led him towards his MLC. I don't know....as the title of my thread says...still confused.

BombOctober 2012-
OW 11/28/12 -H still denies
Separated 11/29/12
Own place 12/12/12
Confessed OW/EA/PA 2/2/13
Oct 2013 - I knew I was done
Jan 2014 - Anticipating the rest of my life