A Tale of Two Cities

[QueenOhHearts]

I decided to send a brief message to H thanking him for the flowers just to be polite. I am disappointed though that he didn't reply back.

Am I missing something vital here? I don't understand this start/stop, hot/cold, yes/no stuff from him. Last time I talked with him (last week) he was so insistent that he's serious about reconciling and wants me to believe him. But I don't understand his lack of communication. He's NEVER acted this way before. It's really making me think that he does not want to reconcile and that I just need to move on from this M. I don't want to waste my time and lose my self-respect in the process.

I would love some feedback here. My H gets upset when I push him away but look at what he does......I'm not feeling sorry for myself but I just don't understand his aloofness.

This doesn't look to me like the behavior of a man who wants to be back with his wife. To me this looks like a man saying "I don't love you or like you. Go away and leave me alone."

What the heck was the point of the flowers with the card that says "With love...."

I'm totally confused. I want honest behavior. Words matching action, action matching words. I am not getting this.

Help?????????