She came up and ate supper with us and to do her laundry. Boys left the table and she asked if my parents had asked about her. I told her that they do and are concerned and sometimes angry. She stated that if we stay married, visiting with my parents most weekends would not be something she would want to do. I told her I understood that and knew that would be ok. She then said that if she had to decide today to either go back to the way things were or get a divorce, she would choose divorce. I said that was fine, but financial issues are going to have to be dealt with at some point, mainly the house. She said she knew that. I then got up and walked off.
In the span of two hours I got more mixed signals than I care to figure out. What a frustrating ordeal.
Mtn- You said way too much about you our parents. Don't talk with her about her relationships with other folks and her, unless those other folks are your children and its necessary. The truth is...it's all just venting. Stop that immediately.
