Okay, I could use some help in setting a boundary. Everytime my w asks me for information regarding terms of our D it is like a knife to the heart. I know that I have said it is just a piece of paper, but it hurts to talk about it. She wants the info from me because if her L has to research anything it is costing her money. She says we will always be a family, and everytime she talks about a d, it is a reminder to me that our family is dying. I will copoarent as best as I can, although being a family for me is a package deal.
Sometimes I think that a d will have to happen in my sitch before there is a chance for r. Just wondering how to word the boundary that I am done providing info, as she should have everything she needs at this point anyway, and either her L or herself can research anything else moving forward. Or do I put on a smile and pretend that I am okay with a divorce. I feel like I am fighting a losing battle and I should focus on the overall war.
Plus it seems like everytime I am in a good place the d comes up and sends me back down.
Me 37/W 32 S 5 D 4 ILYBNILWY 5/12 Sep 8/12 Starting to find myself 11/12 on
