BRNR, how old are you kids? Are they really young?
I get what you're saying as does Snodderly I'm sure. I think the suggestion is sound - continue to look for that plan B. The one you have is not as tenable as you might want. If no other options present themselves right now, don't stop looking. And perhaps you could let your friends and family know what's going? - they may step up even if it seems a long shot. No sense discounting options before their time, right? That's what being between a rock and a hard place is all about.
I think you'll know more definitively where you stand once you have the conversation with your H. But if he's not able to come through, checking with others would be a great idea. Friends have a way of doing more than you think they will when you need it
When do you start going in for tests/treatments?
AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."
