Hey AJ,

There you are...I was hoping you found my new thread, your advice as well as Snodderly's and Portia's has been great.

Yeah, you are probably right, I just don't want to get emotional in front of him and I know that is how I will get. Guess it is time to dig into that infinite bucket of courage...I will wait until I have more of the facts/dates before I have the conversation, so I can try and minimize how much we have to talk about it....

I am really scared for my health and to have this conversation with H (who is no longer my emotional support-Ughh), but honest is what it is, and I have always tried to live honestly.


BombOctober 2012-
OW 11/28/12 -H still denies
Separated 11/29/12
Own place 12/12/12
Confessed OW/EA/PA 2/2/13
Oct 2013 - I knew I was done
Jan 2014 - Anticipating the rest of my life