I came to give you some support on your thread. I wish I had some fabulous wisdom to pass onto you.
MLC is so very different when we are up close and personal. It isn't the cliche red sports car protrayed by general media. In fact, I would be so grateful if it was, at least I would get a cool ride out of it. Instead, it is a condition that turns the MLCer inside out and spins their families in the dryer on high speed. For me, the worst manifestation of MLC was the OW, so I can empathize with you there.
Take your time before making any decisions. The whole concept of time is good and bad, I think. Bad because we feel like we are constantly waiting but good, because the situation does not change in a hurry. Feelings change day to day but the core of the situation takes a long time to change. I think we can use that to our advantage.
Post when you need to - even if you are spinning - we will be there with a bucket and Gravol.
