Okay, huge dilemma-

My cancerous problems from early 2012 are re-surfacing and I am concerned that I will have to go in for massive amounts of testing and surgery again. My dilemma is that I never told anyone about it except for my boss (because of the time away from work that I needed) and H. I don't have any family of my own nearby that would be able to help me physically and I really don't want to air my health problems...what do i do? I will probably need support from H with the kids to say the least, but what about the days of testing and surgery where I need someone. Is it wrong to ask him?


BombOctober 2012-
OW 11/28/12 -H still denies
Separated 11/29/12
Own place 12/12/12
Confessed OW/EA/PA 2/2/13
Oct 2013 - I knew I was done
Jan 2014 - Anticipating the rest of my life