Is this cake eating 11

[BklynMom]

Everyone knowing was the best thing that happened to me. I didn't tell a lot of people initially because of the db theory keeping the road home paved and smooth. But for me that was a burden and keep me down. Having the world know opened up my own life and I realized that most of the shame I had was self inflicted. In my neighborhood no one really cares too much about my marital status they all have their own busy lives.