The MLCer seems to think that 'in love' is something that just happens.
Well, that’s the way it works in our songs, movies and story books!
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I guess it's really an honor that they think we are responsible for their misery. No one could cause them this much pain unless they (we) were closer to them than anyone else in the world.
Funny thing is, my W doesn’t seem to blame me for much of her discontent, she just believes she’s not “in love”, and time is running out to find it. Sure, immediately after BD there was lots of spewing about how bad of a H I was, (even though she never complained prior to this, and stayed around for now nearly 30 years) but that has gone away.
Maybe it’s because she’s searching within for answers... maybe she’s done, is planning her leave and just doesn’t want to be the bad guy in the interim. If I had even the slightest clue it could be the former, it would help me tremendously to be patient.
One of her recent favorite songs: "I will wait for you" wth?
What does this mean? I know. Nothing.
M: A really long time. Crisis: 5 years. She's still worth it.
Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl
