Financial question. W isn't willing to discuss much when it comes to finances. How do I help her understand that I/we need to make some tough financial decisions, especially related to our home? I can't be as tough as I'd like because this is a two income responsibility. I need her to help pay the mortgage, which means I have to put up with her foolish spending.
M - 42 W- 37 S's - 9,6 M-12 T-14 FIL- diagnosed with fatal disease spring 2011 ILYBNILWY - march '12 FIL - died jan '13 W Moved out week later