Financial question. W isn't willing to discuss much when it comes to finances. How do I help her understand that I/we need to make some tough financial decisions, especially related to our home? I can't be as tough as I'd like because this is a two income responsibility. I need her to help pay the mortgage, which means I have to put up with her foolish spending.


M - 42
W- 37
S's - 9,6
M-12
T-14
FIL- diagnosed with fatal disease spring 2011
ILYBNILWY - march '12
FIL - died jan '13
W Moved out week later