Here is a link to the most recent of mine in Newcomers:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2320882&page=1

Thread title is a Foo Fighters song (seems fitting for all of us DBers).

So where to start...this is the second time I'm here, only this time it is better as W said she 100% rather than the previous 60%

Since she stated this, here are mini events of what has happened. She refriended me on FB / defriended OM without me having to say anything. She chose to put on her wedding ring. I followed suit the next day. We have ML a couple times. We have conquered many household projects, including reclaiming our bedroom (painting, cleaning, moved her bed into our bedroom), She asked me on an afternoon date yesterday, it went well.

We have generally been focusing on reestablishing an emotional connection with several convos re: what is "100%" (eg NC with OM, the need for reassurrance here and there, etc.).

So feel free chime in and offer thoughts as I / We begin down this path.