Continue as you have been...it takes a long time for them to finally exit out of the tunnel. It could take as long as 6-9 months once they've started to wake up. He may never talk straight about what went on within himself, but he could very well "skirt" around the issue. There will come a time when you will be able to have a chat w/him about how you felt and what happened during his crisis, but it's going to be a while before that takes place.
Right now, your h is still feeling his way along his path and he's still a bit fragile. I'm glad he's moved things back into the bedroom. Hopefully he feels more comfortable in his own skin. I do believe he's turned a huge corner and hopefully will not run back to the rabbit hole.
Hrm, you are doing beautifully. I know it's frustrating at times, but he's on his way back to the land of living. Please continue to be patient. Stay the course.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
