This is all so surreal, isn't it? In my sitch I marvel at what my H expects from me and then I marvel again when I actually live out those expectations. (ie, maintain a surface of normality despite ow, despite stated lack of love, despite the shard of glass jabbed into my heart)
Its so hard. And so unbelievable that someone can treat their partner that way - without ever thinking what they do is WRONG.
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He does not seem to realize that, in the same way he thought his having a GF would not affect our friendship at BD.
Doesn't that just boggle your mind? It'd be frickin hilarious if it wasn't so tragic.
Oh well. Hang in there. Day by day. (These are things I tell myself - along with "I think I can, I think I can")
Have a good day today
Me 46 H 56 M 22 yrs S22, D20, Twin Ss18
You teach people how to treat you by what you allow. What you stop. And what you reinforce. ~~~~~~~ A lack of boundaries invites a lack of respect.
