Well, after my Wifes day of "thinking things through" she sent me a email:
" I have thought about this, our marriage long and hard and for a very long time. There is no point for me in going to any more counselling because for me our marriage is over and has been for some time, which i have tried to tell you and explain to you so many times. I know you find this hard to understand but I know it is the right thing."
No surprises really - same old stuff.
Unfortunately I had this email on the very day I found out my Dad has a matter of days to live so very upsetting.
W 39 Me 33 M 9yrs 8 year old Son ILYBINILWY - Dec 12 W moved out - Jan 2013 OM - Jan 2013 I file for D - May 2013