Congratulations Ali! I think so many reconciled DB fade out of the BB and when we're so caught up in the moment of separation we look for people like yourself but find very few. It's awesome you and H are doing so well.
And I agree, when friends complain about their marriage. When they make a mountain out of a molehill, it really bugs me. They haven't been where we've been, appreciating our relationship and knowing that we have so much to do with our unhappiness.
M 42 H 39 T10 (-2yrs separation) S8 D5 DD 7/30/11 (EA&PA) Reconciled 6/2013 Separation in works 1/2017