Update: Will it Ever Change?

[AJM]

Someone can't be happy when they have that much anger. But it keeps the demons at bay for a while when you judge others

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I prb shouldn't have said I understood the anger, I guess I figured it came with the territory for a couple yrs. anyway.
How does your kids deal with this?
I will always be here for my son and have told him so.

Well, my son seems to do ok with it. He's not happy about the divorce, or ex's new husband, but he makes the best of it. Daughter seems to be angry, but since she's taking it out on me, it's really hard to say how she feels. She doesn't talk to me and goes to great lengths to be angry toward me, like her mom. Solidarity? Sympathy? Feels safe taking it out on me? I dunno. But it is what it is. Kind of like ex leaving and getting remarried so quickly, right? Logic says it's not marriage they are against, even though that's what they said to us. right?

In my mind, your son, like my daughter, have to get through what they have to get through before they can grow like they should. Will they? Very likely. Is it tough? Heck yeah. My ex is very good at getting people to like her when she wants to. It drove me crazy, almost literally. I can only imagine how hard for my daughter. But she'll figure it out at some point in her life. Just like your son will. It's part of their growth and it'll take as long as it takes I think.

Peace!

AJ