Dear old timer One month ago he told ow he wants her not me. He was looking for apts. he is still lying to me. My non negotiable is lying. I don't trust him. He is doing nothing to back up what he says. He is always gone. When he is here he watches tv. Doesn't interact much. All of a sudden he wants to work on it because what? She dumped him? How many times do I go through this? It's the same thing as before. I wasn't happy before all this. Cuz I felt unimportant, not respected. I believe he can't stop contacting her. I don't want to live this way.