Hey Pathfinder--- first off I just wanted say you are doing a good job but still maybe focusing too much on her..Why did you have to move out of the master bedroom? If this goes further and one of you has to move out of the house--- don't let it be you, she is the one that will need to move out get her own place etc.. and you should not help with that... My W seems to be acting like a college kid again..I saw her the other day and all she had to talk about was playing music and her friends...I noticed that while according to Db I should listen etc...and not make many comments but in reality I just was having a hard time not seeing her as a lost 20 year old..(she is 40)... My point is--- is I see your W a lot like this and it is no good to try analyze it and try to make sense of her behavior... It does not make me feel good and I can't change her to make her love me; so you can't truly GAL when you are thinking about her all the time...now is time for you...Get out there and do something for you...and take care of yourself!
