Yes snodderly
My gut says its all talk. Trying to deflect and change the subject. I'm an easy mark. He knows how to get me. He went to exercise and go talk to his friend. Well how about gettin me flowers or cooking a meal or asking me what he can do? I told him his best efforts fell far short. This weekends conversations told me this: that its all about him, that she most probably gave him the boot, that he has feelings for her because he defends her, the unwillingness to say he is wrong is being defensive and asking me if I'm willing to throw this marriage away (among other things said like that) is trying to place blame on me and get the focus off him. My gut says the changes will be shot lived and then back to crap again.