Sorry:) wasn't trying to give you bad news. Counselor just said when a third person is involved it complicates so many emotions on both spouses and its really tough while it is still going on. If the spouse having an A drops it, then obviously the odds get better for reconciliation
M 37 W 30 S 7 Together 10 years Married 9 years BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day) I moved to apartment 1/11/13 W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13 Peicing: 6/3/13 Reconciled: 7/2013 BD2: 4/20/16 still working on it