"This was hopeful until the last sentence..."

Sorry:) wasn't trying to give you bad news.
Counselor just said when a third person is involved it complicates so many emotions on both spouses and its really tough while it is still going on.
If the spouse having an A drops it, then obviously the odds get better for reconciliation


M 37 W 30
S 7
Together 10 years
Married 9 years
BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day)
I moved to apartment 1/11/13
W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13
Peicing: 6/3/13
Reconciled: 7/2013
BD2: 4/20/16
still working on it